Dear Mother Nature,
For two days, we danced. You came to me in the early hours of Monday morning, and I leaned into your embrace.
‘I am here to dance
As we have for thousands of years
To a song I’ve never heard, but have danced a million times…’ – Storm Ellyatt
Slow and steady, I swayed to your rhythm, rising to the swell of each surge.
The dance was long and enduring, testing every ounce of our emotional and physical strength.
In the early hours of Wednesday morning you came thicker and faster, your pace more insistent and I could barely catch my breath before I was swept along – no longer in control, but completely surrendered and at the mercy of your power.
And then I heard you whisper in my ear: TRUST.
We danced, we moved, we fell breathless and exhausted, only to begin again this intoxicating euphoric sway of nature.
I stumbled, I rose, I fell again, and just when I thought I could dance no more, I roared my final roar… and then you gave us the gift of our baby boy 💙🌈
Welcome to the world Kole Roy.
Date: 1st Aug 2018
Time: 1:03am
Weight: 9 pounds 3 ounces
You are beautiful in every way. Words cannot express the depth of love we already have for you.
My deepest gratitude for my incredible birth companions, Daddy, Dasha, Michelle and Grandma Lorraine who came along for the dance and remained steady and consistent to each change in tempo.
And for the energetic support of my Divine friends and sisters, you gave me the courage and strength I needed to own my vision of a natural birth. We did it! It wasn’t quite the 3 hour birth I’d envisioned, but it was worth every last little ounce of energy!
We will be opening our arms and hearts to welcome visitors in two weeks time. We appreciate your love and patience in the meantime as we honour this sacred time to bond (and rest!) as a family and for bubs to gently adjust to his strange new world outside of the womb.
Love always,
Hayley, Daley and Kole Roy xxx
Congratulations, Hayley!!!!! He is beautiful! I am a bit behind in reading blog posts, but am so happy I read this one today!!! Lots of love to all of you! xo
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Thank you sweet soul! Sending you so much love and gratitude (and no worries, I am SO behind with reading) I feel terrible I barely have time to even write these days! 🙈 xx
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Congratulations Hayley what a beautiful little boy he is.
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Thank you! Love and milky kisses 😘 xx
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Congratulations! He’s adorable. Welcome to motherhood!!
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Thank you beautiful 🙏🏻🌸💗 xx
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What a head of hair and he’s sleeping well after all that effort to arrive … very cute … all my love and best wishes 🙂
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Hehe he takes after his Daddy in both both the hair and the sleepy department! I on the other hand, have forgotten what sleep means 🙈😴😉 xx
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yes, that’s a usual hazard of parenthood … hang in there … now you’ve got two kids 😉
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Haha I sure have! 🙊🙈
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wow wow wow, congratulations Hayley/Mum, Dad and young Kole … what a delightful family he has arrived into …. wishing you all a wonderful energetic but marvellous life together …. now for the next part, adapting to motherhood but you will do it well!
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Thank you beautiful 🙏🏻💙🌈 oh yes, it’s certainly been a journey of adapting alright, but we are taking each day as it comes whilst loving our little boy all up 🙏🏻💙🌈 xx
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yea for you … the lack of sleep, the broken routine and the responsibility tests new parents but sounds like you have good supports! love you 🙂
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Thank you – love you too beautiful woman! 😘 xx
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take care precious!
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hey couldn’t believe the coincidence … just read this post tonight, please make the time Hayley as I’m sure you will appreciate the humour 🙂
https://robbiesinspiration.wordpress.com/2018/08/11/stream-of-consciousness-saturday-prompt-bodily-functions/
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Haha this was brilliant! Thank you for the share 🙏🏻🤗 it certainly made me smile that’s for sure 🤪 xx
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Yes, thought it might strike a chord 🙂
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Congratulations once again beautiful lady. I will be putting together a little bundle of wonderful ness to come your way as a gift from across the seas. I will bottle up many kisses for all of you and wrap those hugs up tightly xxx rest up and well done you amazing lady xxx
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Oh you darling – save your pennies, your love and warm wishes are plenty a gift for all of us. Sending love and hugs your way beautiful woman 😘🤗🌈 xx
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Wow what a wonderful post Hayley. He is just adorable. Wishing you all many blessings. 😍
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Thank you Bridgid 🙏🏻💙🌈 love and hugs xx
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