There have been moments during the past seven weeks of parenting that I’ve experienced mild to moderate, to at times, even manic overwhelm. But I know not to beat myself up.
Mumming and breastfeeding non stop around the clock with little to no sleep can send even the most grounded of persons spinning off the earth’s axis.
I am not perfect, nor must I try to be.
In spite of the craziness, I love my little family unconditionally and wouldn’t trade any of this madness in for the world. For amidst the mayhem are bountiful blessings that make it all worthwhile; I am Mum to a beautiful, spirited son who lights up my world despite keeping us well on our toes; I have my supportive, hardworking spunk of a man by my side who provides buttery crumpets to warm my tum and endless laughter to warm my heart; I am also blessed enough to be surrounded by authentic women who I am proud to call my friends.
I honestly believe that the more grateful we are about life, the more life has to offer us things to be grateful for.
It’s so easy to get blindsided when emotions are running high, so today, tune in and count your blessings.
What blessings keep you keeping on?
Nothing in life is guaranteed, not even our next breath. As extreme as this may sound, it’s important to remember this simple truth if we are to appreciate all life has to offer.
Before becoming a Mummy I walked everyday, sometimes even twice a day for an hour each time. These days I am lucky to get a half hour walk depending on my sons mood… I have learnt not to expect my walk, but to be grateful when it does happen. This way I avoid disappointment and appreciate our time spent in nature all the more. I remember to ‘stop and smell the roses’ 🌹 Or in my case, these beautiful orange flowers (I have no idea what they are, feel free to educate me!) 😉
Today, stop and smell the roses. Notice your next breath and give thanks. Expect nothing and appreciate everything, and if you can’t appreciate it, at least accept it.
Love always,
Hayley xx
So glad you are posting and rejoicing! Thought the little fellow would love a stroll … 🙂
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I’m so happy when we get outside… I have to get my window of opportunity just right… if he’s overtired he won’t be strapped into anything (stroller or car seat) so I have to time it just right! 🙈🙊 xx
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you will be sensitive to his every need and mood, then work around it … well done you!
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I’m guessing that they’re Californian poppies. Is the leaf pale green and feathery? Parenting now gardening what next earthly delight 😊
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Hehe I know right? The possibilities are endless 🙊 I believe you are right as another friend guessed the same as you on my Instagram page! Wise ladies 🙏🏻🌸 xx
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Beautiful my lovely. Just beautiful. I need to take a leaf from your book and accept things more often. Lovely words as always. So blessed to call you my friend xxx
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And I too, am blessed my dear 🙏🏻🌸 love and hugs to you beautiful xx
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You know to accept things as they’re is tough but once accepted life becomes easy. It requires time to accept facts.
It’s great that you’re cherishing every moment in your life.
More power to you Hayley!!
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Wise words beautiful Madeeha, you are right, with acceptance life flows with more ease 🙏🏻 much love xx
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