I believe it takes a strong person to be gentle. There is a benign strength that exists in the tenderhearted.
I am forever grateful to have been blessed with a compassionate father figure. However brief our time together was, the lessons and blessings remain infinitely eternal. He was known as our gentle giant. All six foot two inches of him was benevolent and kind. Despite living with epilepsy, and four feisty females, he never once wavered from love and compassion. Dad’s inner strength has remained a guiding light for right action in my own life. I don’t always get it right, but I certainly do try.
Where and when can we practice gentleness in our own lives? One of my favourite quotes by the Dalai Lama states:
‘Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.’
It takes strength and courage to choose kindness; to be humble when faced with adversity; to consider the needs of others when our own are not being met, and to be vulnerable when our hearts are on the line. But when we are guided by the part of us that is honest, good-natured and true, we remind others that it is safe to do the same.
Today, find the strength to be gentle. May our thoughts be forgiving and merciful, may our words inspire and uplift, and may our actions show compassion and empathy in all circumstances – towards others as well as ourselves. Because ‘nothing is so strong as gentleness; nothing so gentle as real strength.’
In love & light,
Hayley xx
I totally agree with your first paragraph. A beautiful tribute to your dad.
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Hayley your dad sounds like an amazing dad, and clearly you have inherited some of his finest qualities, compassion and love. I see it in every one of your posts, where your gentle nature shines through. He would be so proud of you. xo
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Thank you my dear friend, that means a lot to me. Wishing you peace and love on this fine Sunday xx
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Thank you lovely lady. You too. I’m just sitting here watching the sun set, it’s so peaceful. Hugs xo
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I am doing the same! Whilst listening to the birds chirping 🙂 enjoy lovely lady xx
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Amazing isn’t it, that we’re doing the same thing, enjoying the same sky, similar sounds. Love it … 😊 xo
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I love that too 🙂 such a wonderful thought xx
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