Letting go of grievances can, at the best of times, be a struggle, however hard we may try. Each time we recall what happened, we experience the pain as if it were afresh. We feel wronged, and at times, with good reason to be. But whilst we may feel justified in holding others accountable for our unhappiness, it rarely, if ever, serves its purpose. Instead we render ourselves immobile, incapable of moving forward. Grudges and deep-seated resentments not only effect our lives and the lives of those closest to us, but they also wreak havoc with our mental, physical and emotional wellbeing. Thoughts of: “If only he’d change; if only she hadn’t treated me that way; if only my circumstances were different, then my life would be so much happier…” – only serve to prolong our pain and misery.
There is a famous quote believed to have been said by Buddha that states: “Holding on to anger is like drinking a cup of poison and expecting the other person to die.” It is we who suffer, not they.
Today, may we find that sacred space in our hearts, that peaceful place that frees us from the binds of non-forgiveness.
In love and light,
Hayley
This is a very good piece of philosophy. I am going to reblog this one for you.
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Thank you! I am very grateful for your reblog xx
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This is the last post that I’m reading before heading off to bed and a perfect way to end my day. Peaceful thoughts, letting go, not holding on to what causes us angst. Thank you Hayley. Beautiful thoughts that I needed to read. Big hugs to you xo
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You’re welcome Miriam, I hope you had a peaceful slumber xx
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I did and now a new day begins. Happy Wednesday Hayley. xo
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And so it does 😊 Thank you Miriam, may it be a blessed one xx
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For both of us. Hugs xo 😊
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