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My Writing Haven


Writing 101, Day 6: The space to write

Today’s prompt asks:

  • What are your writing habits?
  • What equipment or supplies do you use to write?
  • What do you need and want in a physical space?

I am really quite old fashioned at heart. I prefer books to Kindles (I was kindly bought a Kindle as a gift, and admittedly, I used it once on holiday and returned it to the box as soon as I arrived home. It has remained there ever since.) Even if it means carrying an extra few kilos of volumes in my luggage, I’d much rather have a real book in hand than a piece of electronic equipment.

The same goes for my writing practice. I have journals and notepads galore! I just can’t get enough of them and am a bit of a geek when it comes to shopping. Mostly, you will find me in the stationary isles. I love the unique design of each, I’m usually drawn to pastels and neutral colours, with designs that incorporate birds, flowers and nature. The crisp white pages invite me to fill the blank spaces in a way that the laptop just doesn’t ignite. I can, however, see the benefits of electronic writing; it allows for easy editing and takes up less space thanks to the invention of hard drives. But there’s something about the thought of discovering the original works of writers, in the early, raw stages of production that inspires me. Many poets, such as Wordsworth and Shelley, left behind extracts of original works that evolved and changed over time, extracts that are still able to be viewed by the public today. When a piece is handwritten, it arrives at the page straight from the heart; raw and unedited, regardless of how many times it has been crossed out or altered and changed. Watching it evolve is part of the process. Often with word processing, we see only the edited, perfected piece at the end, minus the struggles, alterations and changes it took to arrive there. Each time we hit ‘save’, we lose part of the manner in which the piece unfolded and matured. For that reason, I much prefer to use my pen and type it up later; to cross out, to insert arrows or an asterix, so that I can remember the journey and not just the destination.

I’m also quite privy to a Parker. I was first bought a Parker pen when I was eleven, it was a black fountain pen with blue ink cartridges (I much prefer blue ink to black, and tend to only use black when a form requests it.) I loved the way it felt in my hand, the way the ink glided over paper, I felt so grown up. My handwriting was never quite the same when I used other pens, and equally, none of my friends at school could write neatly using my pen! It was like it was made for my hand. I still use a Parker pen today, although I have moved on since the days of my fountain pen. My partner bought me a silver ball point Parker which I simply love.

In terms of my writing space, I just need peace. A quiet space in which I can connect with my heart and my pen. I like to gather ideas and inspiration from my surroundings, conversations with people, walks and solo missions, travels near and far; but once I have gathered this information, I need a peaceful environment to retreat to. If it’s a little noisy at home, I’ll put on some classical music in the background to get me in the zone. If it’s a nice day, I will take my notepad and pen outside to write, surrounded by the beauty of nature. Otherwise, I sit in my comfy armchair in my bedroom as I am doing now. Or on the bed. I do own a writers bureau, which I love. But as much as I love having a writer’s desk in my room to house my stationary, I rarely sit at it. Simply because there’s something about sitting at a desk that reminds me of when I was a child at school, when we were expected to sit and work, or of the time I was employed in an office and I was required to sit at a desk. Whenever I sit at a desk to write, it suddenly feels like a chore. I much prefer to be comfy so that my writing is inspired rather than forced.

So there you have it! My writing habits. What are yours?

6 thoughts on “My Writing Haven

  1. I swear we are somehow connected in this or another Universe. Today I stopped at this unique little store that I love, it sells lots of wonderful, out of the norm items and I bought two more journals, I was there last month and bought a journal, I now have 5 currently surrounding me. I bought that pillow that is in my post “today” as you are reading this it is now “today”, a couple of wooden book marks, two silver tokens on one side is the sun on one and the moon and stars on the other token and as you flip over the sun it reads Gratitude, and the flip side of the moon says Dream. I use a blue pen all day at work, I prefer blue also. I totally agree with you about writing it on paper first so that you can see how it evolves, it is the journey as well as the destination. I have a sun room that I absolutely love to sit in to write, three walls are all windows looking out to trees and mountains, very inspiring, that’s where I saw the bear from! I could picture you sitting in your comfy chair, legs maybe hanging over one of the arms, pen rested against your lips while deep in thought as to what to write next, in your pj’s!! Feet pajamas at that…ok maybe not…xoxo


    • Hahaha oh you do make me giggle! I am totally in my pyjamas when I write and I wear big cosy socks on my feet in winter 😉 you also just cast my mind back to the day you saw your bear friend! Lol I can imagine your panicked reaction at meeting your unexpected guest in your garden! We are most certainly connected in heart and spirit regardless of the time and space between us – I believe in life’s connections and you are certainly one of them ❤ (ps your purchases sound wonderful! And those tokens just beautiful!) I have a little heart shaped marble stone which says 'faith' on it, I like to hold it when I meditate along with my Rose Quartz xx

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  2. I used to say I’d never switch over to the “electronic side” but I have. I have a Kindle account, but read on my iPad. I jot middle of the night inspirations on my cell phone – easier than turning on a light. My hand writing has become sloppy because I type all the time, but I still take notes on a lined yellow notepad for conference calls. That way I can flip through my notes while I type and work. I also have a beautiful, leather-bound journal. And I have a thing for pens – love them. As a doctor, my dad used to get all kinds of cool pens and sort through his pile and steal a few. So I guess I live in both worlds. Thanks for sharing.

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    • Hi Kathy, since using WordPress I have become used to the idea of using my laptop more when writing, if somewhat begrudgingly, but I don’t think I’ll ever switch from books…I want a beauty in the beast library one day! So owning masses of books is the only way to fill it 😉 Like you, I dip into the world of electronics, but live mostly in my world of books and journals! Thank you for sharing, I can see you as a little girl rummaging through your Dad’s pen collection! 🙂

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      • I do it as a big girl too. But he doesn’t get as many pens as he once did. In the picture in my last post of my grandfather the little girl in the picture is me. But you probably figured that out. Ours is a house of electronics thanks to my husband and 2 kids. The way things are today allows me to work from home full time. But there are some books that are better as hard copy.


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